I hit 40 and was also hit with a mid life crisis! Sadly, my marriage is loveless (it's on life support) and it's too complicated to leave. So I found the Internet. The Married But Looking sites that have opened a whole new world. Join my secret journal and share my Secret Lovers Lane with me as I keep track of all my extramarital affairs or I should say, my new friends with fringe benefits. In search of filling that void, a spark that Mr, Married Prince Charming amongst all the dysfunctional frogs...I always judged and passed judgement and now I guess I am that cheating spouse!